Not every woman is even looking for a relationship … let alone marriage and kids.
Yes, there are still plenty of women for
whom marriage and family is the pinnacle to their utopian romance fairy
tale. Many of those women are professionals with a good education and
promising careers, but to them family comes first and every potential
romantic encounter is a chance at meeting a potential husband.
These women are easy to spot because if
they don’t announce their intention in the opening sentences of their
dating profiles, they are sure to clue you in on their plans within a
half hour of your first date. No brainer.
Then, there are the other women. I usually divide them into three categories:
1. The Adventure Girl.
This is the girl who wants to tick off every box and bracket before she
dies. She wants to explore every remote region of the world and try
every adrenaline-packed activity.
This girl is not looking for a husband,
but a partner in crime and a traveling companion. So if you want to
explore the remote kingdom of Mustang or try base-jumping off Angel
Falls, she’s your girl. This girl is addictive. She is full of life and
passion and is usually a bit crazy, which makes her irresistible in bed.
This woman sees long-term relationships
as a burden. What if you don’t want to join her on that fun-filled trip
to Syria? She can’t have anything or anyone holding her back. If Syria
isn’t on your itinerary, she will quickly move onto another
card-carrying death-wisher who will be only too happy to accompany her.
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2. The Career Girl.
There is only room for one love in this woman’s life—work. Or better
yet, the drive to achieve the very top of her career potential and, if
already there, to advance it.
This woman loves the idea of a romance.
It gives her a feeling of having it all—success at work and love.
However, that “love” will quickly show itself to play second fiddle
should you ever ask her to move or even buy a dog together. She may buy
the dog, but guess who will be walking or training him? She will,
however, be happy to pet him when she gets home.
And as far as moving, you better say
your goodbyes now. She worked too hard and too long to walk away from
her job. While you’re there, also say goodbye to family dinners or any
other couple activities you had in mind. She will schedule a few dates
during the course of the month just to bring you up to speed on what
she’s been up to, but don’t expect to see her much otherwise. Work comes
first.
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3. The Been-There-Done-That-Girl.
This is a woman who got burned one time too many. Just like The Career
or The Adventure Girls, the Been-There-Done-That Girl welcomes romance.
But where The Career Girl’s romance might linger, The
Been-There-Done-That-Girl will not allow herself to get close to you.
She does not have time to run around bars meeting men and thinks it is
better to have a “sure thing” in a steady s*x partner.
She is protecting herself from yet
another heartache and letdown. The minute she feels your romance could
turn into something lengthy, she’s out of there. Even mentioning a
relationship will send her running. She has done a hell of a job
building a wall around her feelings and there is no way she will let
anyone penetrate it.
Of course, this list does not include
married women who have their own reasons for not getting into a
relationship. But that’s a whole other story.
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